In October, we observe Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This time is dedicated to raising awareness about domestic violence, honoring survivors, and fostering a society where love and respect triumph over violence and abuse.

Domestic violence, often referred to as intimate partner violence or domestic abuse, is a pattern of behavior used by one person in a relationship to gain power and control over the other. It can manifest in various forms, including physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, and financial abuse. Domestic violence does not discriminate and affects individuals of all backgrounds, genders, ages, and socioeconomic statuses.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month serves as a call to action. Here are some steps you can take to make a difference:

1. Educate Yourself: Learn about the signs of domestic violence, available resources, and how to support survivors.

2. Support Local Organizations: Contribute to or volunteer with local domestic violence shelters, hotlines, and support groups.

3. Speak Out: Use your voice to raise awareness, challenge harmful stereotypes, and promote healthy relationships.

4. Listen and Believe: If someone confides in you about experiencing domestic violence, listen without judgment, offer support, and encourage them to seek help.

5. Advocate for Policy Changes: Support legislation that strengthens protections for survivors and holds abusers accountable.

By coming together to raise awareness, we honor the survivors of abuse and work toward a future free from domestic violence, not just in October but every day of the year.

If you or a loved one recognize this behavior from a partner, remember: it is not your fault and there are advocates waiting to help. Do not hesitate to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline, available 24/7, at 800.799.7233.

National Resources:

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Resources

Local Resources:

Su Casa – Healing Sanctuary

Women’s Shelter Long Beach

 “At any given moment you have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end.” ― Christine Mason Miller